One dressing skill: a practice plan

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Choose one action to practise when you have some space in the day. This is not an age-based checklist, and independence does not mean doing everything without support.

The action

One item of clothing: ____________________

The small part my child will try: ____________________

The parts an adult will help with: ____________________

Example: “I will put the sock over the toes. My child will try pulling the top upwards.” Choose an action that fits your child’s current abilities.

Set it up

A comfortable, stable place to sit if needed: ____________________

Clothing that is comfortable and easy to handle: ____________________

A relaxed time to try: ____________________

A picture, sign or short phrase that may help: ____________________

A choice, if useful

Two suitable items I can offer: ____________________

How my child can show a preference: ____________________

Pointing, looking, signing and speaking can all communicate a choice. If choosing makes the task harder, skip that part.

During practice

  • Show the action without rushing.
  • Give the agreed help.
  • Notice a specific effort, such as finding an opening.
  • Stop or finish together when it is becoming too much.

What we learned

Something that made the task easier: ____________________

Something uncomfortable or confusing: ____________________

What we will change next time: ____________________

For further practical guidance, see NHS advice on supporting dressing skills. Persistent difficulties are a reason to ask for support, not to make practice tougher.

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